You find out who you really are, understand the mysteries of life and death. 

You'll find your true purpose, which will have an impact on your relationship life and the world around you. 

You'll learn what and how you can give to the world, and how to receive. 

You'll get guidance on how to transform your relationship and sex life from the old patriarchal paradigm to an interconnected paradigm, beyond grandiosity and shame. 

You'll get guidance on becoming a leader, expressing your voice in the world and learning how to create community. 

You'll feel more embodied, joyful, and connected. 

Doors are open for two weeks, 4 times a year. Wherever you start out, you'll move through all the 5 spirals during that time. Each spiral takes about 90 days, with weeks to rest and integrate in between more intensive workshops. 

The weekly CIRCLE TECHNOLOGY circle is alternating on Tuesday evenings at 6pm GMT and Saturday mornings at 9am GMT. 

Calculate your time zone here. 

The details for the other workshops will be shared with you at the beginning of each spiral. 

All of them will be live, but you will also have the recordings. 

Here is again a summary of what you'll receive: 

Weekly: 

1. CIRCLE TECHNOLOGY - social change technology & shadow work 

Every Spiral: 

1. 1 x Workshop on Uniting Masculine and Feminine 

2. 3 x Transmissions on the spiral we are working on (eg. purpose: how your wounds are the gateway to giving)

3. 2-3x workshops/ talks by Guest-teachers 

4. Opening and closing ritual with future-self / identity shift 

5. Resources  

Per spiral, there will be 2 weeks of rest and pause. No Circle Technology will be happening during these times. 

For the rest of the time, there will always be a 90 min Circle Technology per week. This will not be recorded to protect privacy. 

Every week, there will be about 2 more 2-hour long workshops, talk, or experiences. These will be recorded. 

So between 3-5 hours per week if you join all calls live. 

You can participate as often or as little as you like - and just watch the recordings. 

Timing

A Circle Technology will be held weekly alternating between Tuesday evenings and Saturday mornings UK time. There might be changes to this rhythm but these will be communicated one month in advance. 

There will be different Circle Technologies, including Circling, Forum, Authentic Relating, and a Somatic Circle Technology. 

Circling and Authentic Relating 

Authentic Relating (AR) and Circling are, respectively, a philosophy and a specialized, deep-dive practice focused on fostering genuine, present-moment, and empathetic human connections. These practices emphasize vulnerability, curiosity, and non-judgmental awareness to create deep connection, with Circling serving as a more intimate, in-depth form of relational training. 

Participants in a circle practice being seen and accepted for who they are, often resulting in increased emotional intelligence and reduced feelings of loneliness.

Key Principles:

Being with the absolute present moment: Focusing on what is happening now.

Welcoming everything: Allowing all emotions and experiences without trying to "fix" or change them.

Trusting the process: Allowing the connection to unfold naturally. 

Forum 

We all share the same original drama of devastated love, solidarity and trust – a collective trauma – as a result of an era of violence and destroyed community. We can only create peace in our external environment if we learn to create peace within ourselves. This is why the healing of trauma is such a high political priority. New societal vessels are needed for healing to take place, in which insight about our own unconscious automatisms (thoughts and intentions) and true compassion for each other and the world can arise.

While therapy only addresses individuals and cannot but send them back to the society that has made them sick in the first place, Forum contributes to building a new society in which trauma will no longer have an effect on us.

Forum is an essential part of building a functioning community. In this ritual we address issues we wouldn‘t be able to raise in normal conversations, topics that would immediately trigger conflict, or feel too embarrassing, beautiful or moving to be told over dinner.

Forum provides a protected space to reveal conflicts to the community without being judged and to openly reveal love while having free space to explore. We can turn our mistrust, fear, competition, shyness and apparently unspeakable desires into theatrical art pieces, rather than endlessly circling around them in an overly serious manner.

One participant at a time steps into the center of the circle, supported by a facilitator who is trusted by the group, to dare to reveal themselves. Beyond the purely therapeutic level of establishing truthful communication, the person in the center is an artist who goes into “creative distance” to their problem by performing it. This de-identification enables meaningful self-reflection. With this new consciousness, we’re able to take responsibility for behaviors that are acted out unconsciously, and understand the global issues they’re part of.

The Forum is about learning solidarity on a deeper level. When people recognize each other in their shared difficulties they feel less need to disguise themselves and develop the desire to support each other. In every deep Forum, all participants – both performer and those supporting – experience an astonishing transformation. Whenever people dare to lift their masks and reveal themselves, they change and the circle is able to “see” them. “To be seen is to be loved,” is a basic experience, fundamental to building lasting solidarity among people.

Forum also includes learning to give feedback to each other, to say what we perceive in each other, and what we like and dislike in a way that is mutually supportive. After the performance, the people from the circle who bore witness get up to give “mirrors” to the person who just spoke. Every living being needs feedback and resonance to be able to know its specific place in the whole and to develop themselves. By learning to speak truth and receive truthful feedback from others, people can find acceptance for who they truly are. This is a turning point while entering community.

Whatever is spoken in a Forum is confidential to people who didn’t participate in it. It mustn’t become gossip matter.

Insight

• Social transparency is indispensable for establishing a sustainable fabric of solidarity and trust. Truth is a requirement for trust to develop but it can often be explosive, and so needs conscious, spacious ways to be expressed for it to lead to healing.
• Difficulties can be overcome with lightness in a playful performance format. This makes it easier to share thoughts and feelings that are usually hidden, strengthening trust and the integrity of the community. What matters isn’t the external style, but  the authenticity and the creative distance to ourselves. If things become heavy, the Forum leader understands how to turn it into a creative atmosphere through, for example, music, drums, songs or a cheerfully deep prayer.
• By witnessing the healing of the person in the middle, we see that we all carry the same issues. Shifting from a private self-understanding to a communitarian or even global one opens our organism for new healing powers.
• When the performer reveals themselves fully in a circle of trust, they’re liberated by their truth and the self-healing powers start to work. Liberation is a matter of self-revelation.
• Practicing Forum only makes sense in a group of people who have a higher goal than just community itself and want to lift their personal issues to a global level, who are prepared to study the intellectual and spiritual foundations of community building and are ready to speak the truth with each other, including in sexual issues. We don’t recommend practicing Forum outside of this context.

Both and everything. All relationship forms are welcome. 

If you are in a relationship, perhaps it's useful to work through this process together at the same time, but it's completely okay if only one of you joins. 

In the area of relationships, we will focus on dating, being single, as well as on being in a relationship - so that you'll get the teachings that are right for you.