CHOOSE EACH OTHER OR LEAVE
Breakthrough for couples who are navigating uncertainty about the future of their relationship
Start here: Contemplate these 10 powerful questions that will take you a step closer to truth
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Do you doubt whether this relationship is still right for you?
Maybe one of you or both of you want to end the relationship, but there is still doubt and unclarity about what's best.
Doubt is also a form of truth: the truth that you, for whatever reason, don't want to continue in the same old ways.
Is this you?
Maybe one of you or both of you feel betrayed.
Maybe you have different ideas about the future or the form of the relationship - like one of you wants to connect more with other people, one of you is scared; or one of you wants to move abroad, while the other one doesn't.
You don't trust each other very much.
You don't feel safe in each others company at least some of the time.
Maybe even the spark between you has faded.
This program is designed to help you find clarity in the midst of confusion, understand yourself and your partner from a deeper perspective, and guide you toward the decision that aligns with your true needs and your highest version of love in this life.
BOOK A FREE RELATIONSHIP VISION CALL WITH ME TODAY"If our hearts would never break, we'd never have eyes for seeing beauty in the flawed or the imperfect in this world."
Bibi Gratzer
INTRODUCING...
A WORLD-CLASS
3- MONTHS WHOLISTIC
COACHING JOURNEY
WE WILL BE WORKING WITH THE 4 PILLARS OF 'WHOLISTIC' TRANSFORMATION:
What's included?
- Being held in a strong, supportive container for 3-4 months (life is busy for all of us, so you have 4 weeks for taking breaks between the coaching calls if you need that); in total you'll get 16 tailored coaching sessions
- 8 x 60 min Individual Coaching sessions (4 per person)
- 8 x 90 min Couples Coaching sessions
- 12 Weekly video lessons around taking responsibility for your parts, communicating and fighting better, assessing whether this relationship is workable, core-wound, dealing with resentment, blame and shame; as well as creating safety and regulating your nervous system
- Lots of guided audio practices and tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system
- Guided audio or video practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice both individually and together
- Private WhatsApp group with the 3 of us, where you can share anything that comes up in between sessions (with some boundaries around how much I can hold between the sessions)
Healing the Broken Heart
through trauma-healing and somatic experiencing, understanding yourself, honesty, clarity, empathy, acceptance, forgiveness, letting go and true self-love & unconditional love
Recalibrating the Nervous System
through parts-work, self-regulation and recalibration techniques as well as creating relational safety through behavioural change and agreements
Activating sexuality
as a medium of self-healing and relationship transformation; through tantric practices such as breathwork and meditation, and for those who are ready to go deeper through intimacy rituals, and tantric sex practices
Soul Initiation
through a shift of perspective from personality to a higher consciousness; through rituals and prayers (in the way you understand praying); this is a non-religious and non-dogmatic program
I'M BIBI GRATZER.
I am a world class Sex and Relationship Coach, helping couples to heal the wounds caused by betrayal, jealousy, trauma, power-struggles and lack of intimacy.
I use a shamanic - tantric approach in my coaching, which essentially means that I blend the newest relationship psychology with NLP, ritual, shamanism and tantra, conscious kink, shadow-work, meditation and visualisation practices.
It is through our relationships that we can grow more than we could on our own. We also can find greater love, compassion and understanding than we ever could on our own.
BOOK A FREE 60 MIN RELATIONSHIP VISION CALL WITH ME TODAYWHY THIS IS DIFFERENT
Holistic Approach:
I work with the heart, nervous system, sex and soul of your relationship. My work is trauma-informed, and rooted in understanding and practicing masculine and feminine polarity (for the lack of better words - I do work with gender-non-conforming people, too).
The current 'couples work' out there is mainly based on science and psychology and often leaves out or even abnormalizes certain behaviours, like polyamory or abuse.
I see relationships as a complex organism that needs a holistic approach. That's why I work with the body-mind- soul connection and put a lot of emphasis on embodiment, practice, sexuality, and the journey of the soul.
Sacred Sex / Tantric Sex Coaching:
Many couples who come to me have challenges in their sex lives and are unsure about working with sexual energy. You will never be asked to do something, you don't want to do. However, sex and physical intimacy are an important part of nervous system regulation and the health of the relationship.
By restoring a connection between the sacred and sex, we give sex the place in our relationship that it deserves.
Working with me gives you access to tantric practices and techniques that you can use to activate sexual energy, and use it for the healing of love.
"Bibi is gifted. She intuitively sees what's going on and gave us exactly what we needed. We have both grown more than words can describe. It's like a miracle."
Peter - Previous Participant
"I love how many different threads she weaves together, and how she made us practice. She truly embodies what she teaches."
Caroline - Previous Participant
"This program helped us to stay together, but it was only the beginning of working with Bibi.... However, it isn't easy. Bibi goes deep and both nourishes and challenges us, but she is always there with us."
Nick, Previous Participant
WHAT RESULTS MIGHT YOU GET FROM THIS PORGRAMME?
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You both will learn how to take responsibility for your part instead of blaming, shaming or judging your partner
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You will begin to rewire your nervous system from fear to safety through guided partner practices
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You will learn how to communicate and fight more effectively
- You will confront your core-wounds, resentments, shame and judgements
- You will receive practices to connect intimately with each other (even if it's just eye-gazing or massaging each other)
- You will make an honest, sober assessment if this relationship is still workable or if your needs are too different to meet each other where you need to be met
- By the end of the 3-months you will be able to honestly either choose each other, or make a decision to leave
What if your broken heart was the beginning of something more beautiful?
Choose your package
Partly-funded scholarships are available upon request; please email [email protected]
BOOK A FREE VISION CALL WITH ME FIRST IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONSAre my results guaranteed?
What if I want to meet you first and find out if you are the right coach for us?
Do we have to decide at the end if we want to stay together or not?
What exactly is included in the program? And how much time do I need to make space for?
