Healing and transformation for souls ready to have the soul-enriching relationship* with their soulmate that helps them become who they truly are
Be a part of creating a Relationship Culture that values the soul and the soul's desire to know Truth
Do you want to be part of the transformation of our relational culture from fear of failing to trust in our deepest longings?
Do you want to feel supported in regards to healing and up-leveling your sexuality, and your relationship life from suppression to liberation and honesty?
Are you ready to have a *soul-enriching relationship*, which is characterized by deep mutual respect, open communication, encouragement of authenticity, and a shared commitment to personal and spiritual growth?
The cultural transformation from oppression to peace happens one body and one relationship at a time.
I work in the service of a relational culture where we put our soul's journey at the center, not the partner. This means our relationship is in the service of our spiritual development. This culture is built on awareness, love, freedom, truth, self-responsibility, a deep connection with the Earth, and devotion to the Goddess / the Mystery / the Dark.
I help individuals and couples to transform their relationships, and heal wounds/trauma in love & sex. I give guidance on evolving in the areas of communication, conflict resolution, betrayal, polyamory, sexuality, and embodied spirituality.
I am currently researching and developing the 'The Relational Culture Manifesto 2025', and giving talks on relational culture transformation.
I draw from a wide range of tools and teachers, rooted in coaching, authentic relating, tantra, neo-tantra, sexological bodywork, trauma healing, somatic experiencing, mindfulness, parts work, systemic constellations, existential kink, and plant medicine.
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This guide is specifically designed for couples, whether you are still dating or whether you are in a seriously committed relationship.
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Does your relationship have a vision & agreements about how to get there?
If you don't have clarity about where you are going, how can you get there? Whether you want to transform your relationship, get clarity about shared values and differences, minimize having unmet expectations, and get clarity about boundaries, as well as create agreements about how to fight and how to heal afterward, then you need a map: THE RELATIONSHIP MANIFESTO.
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You might think emails were yesterday. But these emails are so full of wisdom, depth, honesty, and value that you'll wait for the day the next one comes. You can also send me emails with questions about sex, love and relationships and I'll do my best to incorporate them in my teachings.
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AND WHO ARE YOU?
Choose support that is right for you:
Couples:
Do you sometimes feel your relationship needs healing?
Do you desire more tantric love-making, eroticism, sexual freedom, healing, zest, and intimacy in your relationship?
Are you troubled by doubts, fear, shame, criticism, defense, judgment, and fighting?
Would you like to gain peace & clarity by understanding the big gift - the bigger meaning - of this relationship in your life?
Individuals:
Are you ready to stop settling for scraps?
Do you finally want to manifest the relationship your heart knows is possible?
Are you ready to change the relationship you have with yourself in sex, love, body-image, and money?
Have you recently ended a relationship and need support to integrate the lessons learnt, and move on?
Communities:
Do you know about the power of group intelligence?
Are you part of a team / a community / a group and you are looking for ways to bring your team closer together, solve conflict, spark creativity, or work through a process?
Are you curious about the connection between the left and the right brain in terms?
By signing up, you'll receive the free 21-day course PLEASURE AS MEDICINE
This course is foundational. It is an intimate meeting with the Deep Feminine, a quality that is collectively suppressed and it’s healing powers are greatly underestimated.
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Being a soul in a body is tough sometimes. Why not fill your life with a bit more sensual and sexual pleasure?
One of the most important aspects of the human experience is to understand the relationship between pleasure and pain.
This free 21-day course will take you deep into your relationship with pleasure and open new doors into yourself and your relationship with your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and your perspective on life.
Want to have a sexual awakening and let go of sexual shame?
The most unexplored, suppressed area in our society is our sexual expression.
Collectively, we repress and even shame pleasure and sensuality. We carry a lot of sex shame. Many suffer from sexual trauma due to abuse, performance anxiety, pain during sex, or other reasons for an unfulfilling sex life.
The costs of this collective suppression are high: 2 billion people suffer from the consequences of sexual abuse, 50% of marriages are divorced, and a third of all women in relationships experience pain during sex but are afraid to talk about it.
I believe that sexual desire is sacred.
Having a sexual awakening means to liberate your sexuality. It means that you finally become one with your original essence and your primal energy. It means, you know what turns you on and how your sexual organs work.
Ready to make a difference in your life?
“What working with Bibi has shown me, is how sacred my relationship is and how much it matters to fight for love. Inspired by this work, I have started dealing with my self-destructive behaviours, which has a positive impact on all my relationships and my confidence. Bibi's work has also increased my capacity to listen and to understand my partner more.”
Fluffeee, Co-founder of Shindig Festival
"Our joint couple's intensive was so powerful in us having the space and opportunity to have our difficult dance witnessed by Bibi and to see where we can come to a deeper place of not making each other wrong, understanding each other and allowing space for eros to emerge. This is exactly what we needed and more - Bibi has held such a strong container for us and importantly shared her potent transmission of what it means to fully embody our sexual energy and lifeforce energy. Working with Bibi has been such a gift to us and we hope to have more sessions with you."
Emma, London
“After just 2 days on retreat with Bibi, I feel loved and really seen by a group of people I trust. It’s erasing a lot of my childhood conditioning and gives me a chance to see my own potential in a way I had forgotten about. I have a new understanding of love and life, and I haven’t laughed so much and let go in years.”
Helen T., Manager
‘I have worked with 3 Psychologists thus far, and I’ve never come as far as I have with Bibi. I felt really safe to open up and really appreciated how she helped me to take more responsibility and understand my partner. We are back together since we worked with Bibi and we wouldn’t have come that far without her.’
Adrian, Engineer
