World-class coaching, healing & transformation for couples and individuals wanting to alchemise relational trauma into sacred relationships and sacred sexuality so that there is more love available for being in service of a changing world
Join me in the Healing of Love and Sexuality to Create a New Story of Love
Do you want to transform relational trauma into gold?
Do you want a sacred relationship that rewrites the story of separation into love through ritual, deep work, and tantric sex?
Do you want to feel supported in the healing and liberating of your sexuality?
Are you ready to become whole through exploring masculine and feminine polarities within and outside of you?
Or, are you curious about exploring non-ordinary relationship models to create a new story of love?
Hello,
I'M BIBI.
I help couples and individuals have extraordinary relationships and mind-blowing sex
Read my storyI am in the service of a cultural transformation from 'role-based' relationships to sacred relationships.
I have a vision of world in which we have healed and transformed the wounds between men and women. In this world, relationships and sexuality are celebrated as sacred parts of life.
I see relationships and sexuality as pathways for spiritual awakening. Our relationships and sexuality are essential in a cultural transformation that we are in the middle of. The more beautiful world I am part of creating is built on awareness, love, freedom, truth, self-responsibility, a deep connection with the Earth, and devotion to the Goddess / the Mystery / the Dark.
In my work, I help healing and transforming wounds in love, relationship and sex through deep somatic work. I give guidance on evolving in the areas of communication, conflict resolution, betrayal, polyamory, sexuality, and embodied spirituality.
I draw from a wide range of tools and teachers, such as the VITA coaching method, Authentic Relating, tantra, neo-tantra, sexological bodywork, trauma healing, somatic experiencing, mindfulness, parts work, systemic constellations, existential kink, and plant medicine.
Download a Free Guide to Create a Relationship Manifesto in 1 Hour
This guide is specifically designed for couples, whether you are still dating or whether you are in a seriously committed relationship.
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Does your relationship have a vision & agreements about how to get there?
If you don't have clarity about where you are going, how can you get there? Whether you want to transform your relationship, get clarity about shared values and differences, minimize having unmet expectations, and get clarity about boundaries, as well as create agreements about how to fight and how to heal afterward, then you need a map: THE RELATIONSHIP MANIFESTO.
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Breathe, Open Your Heart and Say YES
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AND WHO ARE YOU?
Choose support that is right for you:
Couples:
Do you sometimes feel your relationship needs healing?
Do you desire more tantric love-making, eroticism, sexual freedom, healing, zest, and intimacy in your relationship?
Are you troubled by doubts, fear, shame, criticism, defense, judgment, and fighting?
Would you like to gain peace & clarity by understanding the big gift - the bigger meaning - of this relationship in your life?
Individuals:
Are you ready to stop settling for scraps?
Do you finally want to manifest the relationship your heart knows is possible?
Are you ready to change the relationship you have with yourself in sex, love, body-image, and money?
Have you recently ended a relationship and need support to integrate the lessons learnt, and move on?
Communities:
Do you know about the power of group intelligence?
Are you part of a team / a community / a group and you are looking for ways to bring your team closer together, solve conflict, spark creativity, or work through a process?
Are you curious about the connection between the left and the right brain in terms?
SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
10 Questions to Meditate On If Your Relationship is worth fighting for
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Are you asking yourself if it's time to part ways?
All relationships go through phases of crisis. But not all relationships need to end because of that.
In a time, where we have more freedom than ever, staggering divorce rates, and a cultural conditioning one should leave if you aren't happy, the most radical thing we can do is to deeply listen within and choose love every step of the way.
Download these 10 questions to meditate on.
Want to have a sexual awakening and let go of sexual shame?
The most unexplored, suppressed area in our society is our sexual expression.
Collectively, we repress and even shame pleasure and sensuality. We carry a lot of sex shame. Many suffer from sexual trauma due to abuse, performance anxiety, pain during sex, or other reasons for an unfulfilling sex life.
The costs of this collective suppression are high: 2 billion people suffer from the consequences of sexual abuse, 50% of marriages are divorced, and a third of all women in relationships experience pain during sex but are afraid to talk about it.
I believe that sexual desire is sacred.
Having a sexual awakening means to liberate your sexuality. It means that you finally become one with your original essence and your primal energy. It means, you know what turns you on and how your sexual organs work.
Ready to make a difference in your life?
“What working with Bibi has shown me, is how sacred my relationship is and how much it matters to fight for love. Inspired by this work, I have started dealing with my self-destructive behaviours, which has a positive impact on all my relationships and my confidence. Bibi's work has also increased my capacity to listen and to understand my partner more.”
Fluffeee, Co-founder of Shindig Festival
"Our joint couple's intensive was so powerful in us having the space and opportunity to have our difficult dance witnessed by Bibi and to see where we can come to a deeper place of not making each other wrong, understanding each other and allowing space for eros to emerge. This is exactly what we needed and more - Bibi has held such a strong container for us and importantly shared her potent transmission of what it means to fully embody our sexual energy and lifeforce energy. Working with Bibi has been such a gift to us and we hope to have more sessions with you."
Emma, London
“After just 2 days on retreat with Bibi, I feel loved and really seen by a group of people I trust. It’s erasing a lot of my childhood conditioning and gives me a chance to see my own potential in a way I had forgotten about. I have a new understanding of love and life, and I haven’t laughed so much and let go in years.”
Helen T., Manager
‘I have worked with 3 Psychologists thus far, and I’ve never come as far as I have with Bibi. I felt really safe to open up and really appreciated how she helped me to take more responsibility and understand my partner. We are back together since we worked with Bibi and we wouldn’t have come that far without her.’
Adrian, Engineer
