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Is this you?
You are living a life beyond the ordinary. You are smart, emotionally aware, and spiritually curious.
You want to have an extraordinary relationship. One based on deeper trust, true love, healing and authenticity.
Maybe you are open to redefining the old relationship models of classical non-monogamy and masculine and feminine roles.
Maybe you have arrived at a moment in your relationship where love doesn’t feel enough.
Maybe your fights have become repetitive.
Maybe trauma-cycles are slowly destroying your bond.
Maybe you are sexually blocked or frustrated.
Maybe one of you wants to stay, and the other doesn’t know how.
If you’re here, you likely have to make a decision.
You have to decide whether you want to carry on the way you always have, or if you are ready for change.
The following programs are for couples who are ready to evolve in their relationship — for couples who want the highest and the deepest love based on truth, depth, trust, freedom, and growth. Even if it means everything has to change.
I am Bibi Gratzer. — Relationship Alchemist, Sacred Sexuality Teacher, and Soul-Centered Coach for couples on the edge.
I’ve worked with couples facing betrayal, mental-health challenges, existential doubts, and who had relational and sexual awakenings — and I am walking this path myself.
I believe relationships aren’t problems to solve — they’re portals.
Let’s walk through yours.
LGBTQ+ Inclusive
I work with monogamous, polyamorous, homosexual, and queer couples, as well as couples who are curious about consensual non-monogamy or/and want to transition.
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Online Sacred Sexuality Massage Course
For couples who want to overcome blocks and frustrations in their sex life or for couples who want to build deeper trust through sex.
This program doesn't include any personal coaching, but lots of guided practices on sacred sexuality, a guided erotic pussy massage and a guided erotic penis massage, as well as nervous system regulation practices, Sex Magic to manifest the future you want to co-create together and tantric rituals.
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Choose each other or leave
For couples who are navigating uncertainty and need to figure out if investing in the relationship is worth it.
We will look at what's working, what's not working, how to face the parts of you that want to leave, and how to take 100% responsibility for your part. By the end of 3 months of working together, you will know with more certainty, which future you want to choose.
The program has video teachings, guided embodiment practices and online coaching sessions with both of you individually and as a couple.
Conscious Uncoupling
This program is for couples who want to heal together, create a respectful separation, and turn this transition into a chance for mutual growth.
In the video lessons, you will receive information, guidance and powerful embodiment practices on how to self-care, deal with grief, and co-create the past, present and future together in a way that is respectful and honouring of your relationship.
Over 3-months, you will receive online coaching sessions, where will individually guide you through self-soothing techniques, grief work, transforming resentments into 'lessons learnt', and healing the inner-child; we will also work with both of you together on understanding the past, honouring each others needs and desires in the present, and create a vision of the future that is both loving, and respectful.
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Relationship Alchemy
For couples who want to do the work together to up-level from bad to good or from good to sacred relationship. It is for couples who want to create a truly extraordinary relationship - a kind of relationship where you feel deeply seen, loved and chosen.
We'll heal collective wounds between men and women, child-hood and relationship trauma, shift power-dynamics in sex, money and leadership and equip you with practices and rituals to nourish the relationship on all levels: emotionally, sexually, and spiritually.
We work in a holistic way: mind-body, sex, and spirit. This includes understanding trauma, attachment styles, nervous system regulation, better ways of communicating and fighting, expressing emotions without blame, as well an introduction to tantric sex.
There are guided video lessons, guided embodiment practices, as well as online coaching sessions with both of you individually and as a couple, tailored to you.
A true up-level takes time. This program has been created for a minimum of a 6 months period, but can be spread over 12 month.
Sacred Sex & Tantric Sex Coaching
For couples who are stuck sexually, and need personal guidance and coaching support.
You will receive the Sacred Sexuality Massage course plus online individual and couples sessions.
Together, we can explore the blocks in the way of having the sex life you deserve, challenges in your dynamic, how to communicate about your desires and needs, and what great sex would look like for you.
I have rich and juicy toolbox of tantric rituals and practices that will help you connect to yourself and to each other in ways that you have only dreamt of before.
Personalised Relationship Coaching
For couples who want personalised couples coaching and support. In most cases, I work with both of you individually to go deeper into your individual challenges and desires, as well as with both of you as a couple.
We will work on any special topic that you want to work on, such as trauma-patterns, betrayal, jealousy, mental-wellness, attachment related issues, reprogramming your nervous system, behavioural change, changing the narrative you both have about each other, and as well as your sex life.
This could be either in person over an intensive weekend, or over a longer time period online.
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Krissy and George (married 17 years)
When my husband and I started working with Bibi for three months we went from being in a crisis that almost ended our relationship to creating the new relationship we wanted. In every session we felt safe, held and supported on our journey. She encouraged us to move through fear and step more into the people we wanted to be. She helped us explore new ways of relating to each other through spirituality, sexuality, and communication. We’re so grateful to have moved from a ‘stuck’ place to experiencing much more freedom, excitement, pleasure and openness in our relationship. We also feel more equipped to face future challenges on our own.
Jay and Nadia (married 15 years)
We went from having literally no sex at all because it always felt painful, to being regularly physically and sexually intimate. Our understanding of sex as a whole changed and we realised that we had many misconceptions that were hurting our relationship. We removed many blocks, did sexual de-armouring and learned how to practice sacred sexuality.
It's a whole new world that opened up for us. We finally discover that we both like sexual intimacy while before it would make us uncomfortable and stressed.
Dan & Sarah (married 5 years)
Before we began working with Bibi, we fought a lot, there was no spark anymore, and we weren't quite sure why we were together. This had also to do with 2 miscarriages that were difficult to deal with. Through working with Bibi, we dealt with the grief, learned how to resolve conflict without being hurt for days, and we started having the best sex in our lives based on feeling emotionally closer than ever.
We still need to have a call with Bibi from time to time to get a fresh dose of her energy, and discover ever more layers of ourselves and our love for each other.
Helen & Adrian (married 10 years)
I have not only become a better mother, wife, friend and sister but I have been given the tools to continue to improve and develop beyond our sessions. One thing I really appreciated was the mix between individual and couples sessions. Through my time with Bibi I have taken so much, I am learning to be kinder to myself each day, to have more faith in myself and to give love and life to my inner child, and honor my boundaries.
Harry & Rose (married for 17 years)
We wouldn’t still be together if we hadn't met Bibi. She helped us see how we both could transform blame into taking responsibility for our own shortcomings, which was crucial. She helped us significantly decrease fights. Most importantly, she helped us both to become more understanding and allowing of each other's values and worlds. We now support each other where previously we were controlling.
We also let go of the need for viagra because of the tantric tools that Bibi shared with us. We are having the kind of sex again that we had at the beginning of our relationship.
Rebecca & Beatrix (married for 27 years)
In just one session Bibi helped me to awaken my libido that has been dormant for years. My lack of wanting Jen has had a negative impact on our 27-year long relationship. After Bibi's session I feel more connected, playful, and have a big tool-box full of things I can do to activate my sexual desire. We finally had sex again, and our relationship feels more alive than ever.
Wherever you are in your relationship — beginning, unraveling, questioning, or deepening —
There is a path that begins with truth.
Acknowledging that you can't walk this path alone is the first step.
Book a free 60 min discovery call here to receive guidance on the best coaching package for your relationship
