ABOUT

HOW AM I UNIQUE #1

I’m not interested in helping you settle for a relationship that simply works. My work explores what it takes to create love that feels deeply safe, erotically alive, radically honest — and calls more of you into being.

HOW AM I UNIQUE #2

I bring spirituality out of abstraction and into the body. Through sexuality, Eros, pleasure, breath, emotion and embodied practice, we explore intimacy as a path of healing, awakening and transformation.

HOW AM I UNIQUE #3

I believe the way we love shapes the culture we create. The capacities we develop through relationship — to feel, repair, hold difference, use power consciously, create and serve — change not only our relationships, but how we meet the world.

HI, I’M BIBI

I believe the way we love shapes the culture we create.

I’m a Sacred Union Priestess, a relationship and sacred sexuality practitioner, teacher and host of the Sacred Union Podcast.

For more than seven years, I’ve worked with hundreds of women, men, couples and LGBTQ+ clients exploring some of the most intimate territories of being human — love, sex, conflict, desire, betrayal, trauma, power, pleasure and purpose.

But underneath all of my work is a much bigger inquiry:

What becomes possible when we expand our capacity to be in relationship — with ourselves, with another, with difference, with power, with pleasure, with purpose, with the sacred and ultimately with life?

I call this practice Sacred Union.

Not because I have mastered it.

I haven’t.

I have devoted my life to exploring it.

MY TEACHERS

My work has been shaped by many different lineages and ways of knowing — psychological, somatic, relational, tantric, contemplative and esoteric.

I am VITA-certified in Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching through Layla Martin and have trained in Systemic Constellations, Authentic Relating and Relational Meditation, Neo-Tantra, archetypal psychology, masculine and feminine archetypes and shadow work, grief coaching, and TRE® / trauma-release practices.

I have also studied and practised in communities and centres including Tamera, Plum Village and Schumacher College.

Teachers who have significantly influenced my work include Layla Martin, Kendra Cunov, John Wineland, John Hawken, Takh’i Dyandeepa and Thich Nhat Hanh.

My own ongoing practices include Tantra, meditation and mindfulness, ecstatic dance and 5Rhythms, Ashtanga yoga, shamanic practice and esoteric cosmology.

I don’t attempt to collapse these traditions into one truth.

I’m interested in what each can teach us about becoming more capable of relationship with life.

THIS ISN’T JUST MY WORK. IT’S MY PRACTICE.

My interest in Sacred Union did not begin because I had relationships figured out.

Quite the opposite.

My own life has brought me into intimate contact with rupture, betrayal, sexuality, shame, power, grief, trauma, devotion, enormous love — and the uncomfortable things human beings can become capable of when we are wounded and disconnected.

I’ve had to learn what it means to draw boundaries without closing my heart.

To take responsibility without collapsing into shame.

To remain curious about love without using spirituality to excuse what should not be excused.

To discover what freedom and devotion might look like when neither requires abandoning myself.

And I’m still practising.

I’m not interested in teaching from the finish line.

I’m interested in the path — and in creating spaces where we can become more capable of love together.

FROM MARINE ECOLOGY TO SACRED UNION

There was a time when I thought my work would be saving oceans.

I trained as a marine ecologist and worked internationally in climate and ocean protection.

But the deeper I went into questions of ecological and social change, the more interested I became in the humans creating those systems.

How do we relate to power?

Why do we dominate what we claim to love?

Why are so many of us disconnected from our bodies, desires and emotions?

How do we remain connected across difference?

And how do we create together without reproducing the very systems we want to change?

Those questions eventually took me from ecology into psychology, embodiment, Tantra, sexuality, trauma, spirituality and relationship.

What initially looked like a dramatic career change increasingly felt like the same inquiry at a different scale.

How do we return life to the centre?

WHAT I BELIEVE

I believe extraordinary love is possible — and that extraordinary does not mean perfect.

I believe safety and freedom can coexist.

That pleasure matters.

That sexuality can be sacred.

That power can be conscious.

That boundaries can be acts of love.

That rupture does not always mean the end — and that love does not always mean staying.

That our bodies carry wisdom our minds cannot think their way into.

That relationship can become a spiritual practice without becoming a spiritual bypass.

That Eros is one of the great forces of aliveness available to us.

And that learning how to love may be one of the most important things we ever do.

Because ultimately, the way we love shapes who we become.

And who we become shapes the world.

COME PRACTISE WITH ME

Whether you are searching for extraordinary love, already inside a relationship that is asking more of you, or simply know that there is more intimacy, truth, pleasure and aliveness available to you:

you don’t need to have Sacred Union figured out.

Neither do I.

You only need to be willing to practise.

"Bibi is a gifted space-holder. The way she works feels very safe, and challenging in the best way. She isn't afraid to be direct, while she is kind and present. I feel more open, honest and understanding of myself.'

Mark Picthall, Photographer

"Bibi offers really incredible tools and techniques that I find really valuable and helpful for relating with my partner and with others. I can highly recommend her."

Dom, EFT Healer and Facilitator