RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY

For couples who want to get out of the power-struggle and make love again so that you have more energy for what really matters

 

 

You're not here because it's easy. You are here because it matters.

This is for couples who still love each other — but are in a power-struggle.

Maybe you have gone through a crisis, frequent conflict, or you find yourself emotionally or sexually disconnected.

Maybe you’ve had a rupture.

A betrayal of sorts. 

A spiritual or emotional divergence.

Maybe you’re committed — but exhausted and afraid. 

You are still in love — but you don't trust each other fully.

You want to stay. But not like this.

This is your invitation to begin your real relationship.

'Relationship Alchemy' is my signature coaching program for couples who are called to end the power-struggle and enter the TRUE LOVE phase of their relationship, where you can stay true to yourself, while also staying devoted to your partner.

Rooted in modern couples psychology and Tantra, this program will alchemize the chemistry of your relationship through creating alignment in areas of the heart, the nervous system, the sex and the soul of your relationship.

It takes love, truth, freedom, commitment, understanding, healing, respect, and a great deal of self-responsibility to create an extraordinary relationship. 

This is an LBTQ+ inclusive space. 

"Relationship Alchemy is a deep transformation of our identity from 'I' to 'We' - from being an individual to being a part of a relationship.

 - Bibi Gratzer 

 

INTRODUCING...

A WORLD CLASS

COUPLES

COACHING PROGRAM THAT COMBINES SEXUALITY, TRAUMA-HEALING & COMMUNICATION TECHNIQUES

This program focuses on the 'we'-field - the space between you and your partner.

A group-coaching program that includes separate men's and women's circles + a countless video lessons and guided audio practices.

VIP Option: with personal coaching 

LBTQ+ Inclusive 

 

 

 

 

 

What's included? 

  • Being held in a strong, supportive container for 6-12 months with a group of other couples (this helps you to stay motivated, hold each other accountable and brings many other benefits) 
  • 2 x per month LIVE group coaching calls + recordings - once per month 
  • 1 x per month: Separate calls for men and for women 
  •  VIP OPTION 60 min Individual Coaching sessions - once per month 
  • VIP OPTION 90 min Couples Coaching sessions - once per month 
  • Integrate, rest and make time for fun and play every forth week 
  • 8 Modules with multiple video teachings on issues of the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the spirit of your relationship
  • One monthly core-practice for learning and growing together 
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system
  • Guided audio and video practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together

HERE IS A BREAKDOWN:

Emotional Connection + Opening the Heart

  • You'll improve your self-worth and confidence (the foundations of love).

  • You’ll learn to feel deeply seen and wanted — not just for what you give, but for who you are.

  • You’ll create a relationship where your inner children feel safe — even during conflict.

  • You’ll stop reacting from fear, and begin responding from love.

  • You’ll understand your attachment styles and learn how to quickly de-escalate tension, so conflict becomes a teacher, not a threat.

Sacred Conflict + Repair

  • You’ll replace fighting with rituals of repair — ways to be heard, understood, and responded to.

  • You’ll stop recycling old pain in new arguments.

  • You’ll learn to spot low-level resentment before it erupts — and address it with grace.

  • You’ll move from blame to responsibility — and from isolation to collaboration.

  • You’ll stop keeping score and start creating healing.

Personal Responsibility + Nervous System Work

  • You’ll learn to regulate your nervous system and build emotional resilience.

  • You’ll stop outsourcing your sense of worth or safety to your partner.

  • You’ll learn to speak your needs and desires with ownership, not expectation.

  • You’ll explore your core wounds and limiting beliefs, and begin to rewrite them with compassion.

Erotic Reconnection + Sacred Sexuality

  • You’ll rebuild sensual trust through embodied presence and polarity.

  • You’ll explore your edges, your turn-ons, your shadows — with safety and reverence.

  • You’ll step into different masculine and feminine archetypes to increase chemistry and depth.

  • You’ll integrate sacred sexuality and tantric rituals that go beyond just sex — they become healing experiences.

  • You’ll each have your own self-pleasure practice, so you don’t lose yourself in the “us.”

Shared Vision + Spiritual Growth

  • You’ll create a shared relational vision that’s bigger than your triggers.

  • You’ll learn to love yourself more through the mirror of your partner.

  • You’ll discover that every challenge is a sacred invitation to go deeper.

  • You’ll collaborate — not compete. You’ll hold each other as sacred mirrors with equal power.

  • You'll discover what your relationship wants to be in service of, such as your children, projects you create together, the collective, the Earth or Love itself  

The Glue: Play, Joy + Presence

Alongside all this depth, you’ll return to the simple joy of being together:

  • Regular date nights

  • Emotional + physical intimacy practices

  • Exploring new things

  • Play, laughter, and rest

  • The remembering that love gets to be light too

You can join all year around. Limited to 30 couples per year.

Regardless of when you join, this program will take you through an entire year of alchemy and growth. 

WHY THIS IS DIFFERENT

✧ It’s not just about communication tools — it’s deep cellular transformation.

We go deeper than conflict resolution.
We work with your nervous systems, your triggers, your relational blueprints — so you don’t just talk better, you relate from a place of safety, truth, and self-ownership.


✧ It’s trauma-informed and spiritually anchored.

This isn’t therapy. And it’s not life coaching with a few intimacy tips.
This is sacred space where trauma healing, tantric principles, polarity, and deep soul work meet.
We heal in the body, through the breath, through ritual, and through presence.


✧ It includes your erotic life as a portal into your authentic self and liberation.

We don’t avoid sexuality — we honor it. We work with your erotic connection not just for pleasure, but for a deep connection with yourself, each other, and the cosmos. Through masculine and feminine polarity work, you'll learn how to create stronger magnetism between you both . Sacred sexuality is a core part of this work — not an add-on.


✧ It honours your real life and real love.

You don’t have to fit a box here.
Whether you're exploring non-monogamy, healing from betrayal, rediscovering yourselves after the kids have left the nest, or you want to create an unconventional life — this space meets you where you are. I welcome all of you.


This is not self-help. This is soul work.
And if you're ready, we’ll walk it together.

 

This is a premium, bespoke coaching container. I work closely with just a few couples at a time — so the space is deep, real, and fully supported.

Book a Free 60 min Connection Call to Apply for this Program

BONUS: 

A SELF-PACED ONLINE SACRED SEXUALITY MASSAGE COURSE

with guided Pussy and Penis Massage & many tantric rituals worth £444 

I'M BIBI.

I am a world class Sacred Sexuality and Relationship Coach, helping couples to heal and claim the highest and the deepest love with a shamanic - tantric approach. I blend the newest relationship psychology with NLP, ritual, shamanism and tantra, conscious kink, shadow-work, meditation and visualisation practices. 

I have a vision of a world in which masculine and feminine energies are in Sacred Union. That's why I am in service of the healing of the wounds between men and women, so that we can move beyond patriarchy towards a partnership culture. I speak about this more in 'The Sacred Union Podcast' (available on the usual apps)

Let’s talk first. This isn’t a sales call — it’s a connection call.

We’ll explore where you are, where you want to be, and whether this is the right space to walk that journey.

Book a free 60 min connection call to apply for this program
 

"Bibi is gifted. She intuitively sees what's going on and gave us exactly what we needed. We have both grown more than words can describe. It's like a miracle."

Peter - Previous Participant 

"I love how many different threads she weaves together, and how she made us practice. She truly embodies what she teaches."

Caroline - Previous Participant 

"This program changed our relationship inside out and helped us to stay together. However, it wasn't easy. Bibi goes deep and both nourishes and challenges us, but she is always there with us."

Nick, Previous Participant

IS THIS COACHING PROGRAM RIGHT FOR YOU?

 

This work is not for every couple. It’s for those who want a relationship that is equal, committed and deeply fulfilling on every level.

This is for you if:

 

✔ You are doing things differently. You don't fit into a box. You are entrepreneurially minded. A rebel of sorts. A seeker. A high achiever. You are not completely new to psychotherapy, yoga, meditation, conscious parenting, and that kind of thing. 
✔ You’ve experienced a period of uncertainty about whether you want to continue or not. 
✔ You experience a power struggle in your relationship. At times, you are blaming each other like children. And it's costing you energy. 
✔ You’re still in love (or longing to be), and you are ready to commit. 
✔ You are willing to learn what's your responsibility - and give back what isn't. 
✔ You want better sex (or more sex). 
✔ You can handle the word 'sacred' and are open-minded to a new perception of what that might mean. 
✔ You’re open to exploring your own sexuality, discovering tantric sex, and deeper truths about the human experience.
 

This program is for heterosexual and homosexual couples as well as LGTBQ+ inclusive. 

 

Choose your payment plan

 

The Relationship Alchemy program is limited to only 20 couples per year 

 

There are 3 partially funded scholarships available for couples who have a combined income of less than 30K per year 

 

Apply for this program and get on a 60 min call here

6 MONTHS GROUP COACHING

£220 pm

£1320 paid monthly or £1200 paid in full

  • Access to an exclusive WhatsApp group with live-text support - valued £3000
  • 2 x monthly 90 min group coaching calls (12 in total) - valued £2500
  • 1 x monthly men's / women's circle £1800
  • Weekly video lessons with key teachings on the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the soul of your relationship - valued £4000 
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system 
  • Guided audio practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together - valued £2000

You get a total value of £13.000 for £1320

12 MONTHS GROUP COACHING

£200 pm

£2400 paid monthly or £ 2000 paid in full

  • Access to an exclusive WhatsApp group - valued £3000 
  • 2 x monthly 90 min group coaching calls (24 in total) - valued £4800
  • 1 x monthly men's / women's circle (12 in total) - valued £3600
  • Weekly video lessons with key teachings on the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the soul of your relationship - valued £4000 
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system 
  • Guided audio practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together - valued £2000

You get a total value of £17000 for £2400

6 MONTHS VIP GROUP + PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS

£500 pm

£3500 paid monthly over 7 months or £3000 in full

  • Being held in a strong, supportive container for 12 months with private WhatsApp group and live-text support - valued £3000
  • 1 x monthly men's / women's circle - valued £1800
  • 2 x monthly 90 min group coaching calls (12 in total) - valued £2500
  • 12 x 60 min Individual Coaching sessions (6 per person) - valued £1560 
  • 6 x 90 min Couples Coaching sessions - valued £1500
  • Weekly video lessons with key teachings on the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the soul of your relationship - valued £4240 
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system 
  • Guided audio practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together - valued £2000
  • BONUS: Online Sacred Sexuality Erotic Massage Course valued at £444

You get a total value of £16.344 for £3.000

12 MONTHS VIP GROUP + PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS

£450 pm

£5400 paid monthly over 12 months or £4500 in full

  • Being held in a strong, supportive container for 12 months with private WhatsApp group and live-text support - valued £3000 
  • 1 x monthly men's / women's circle - valued £1800
  • 2 x monthly 90 min group coaching calls (12 in total) - valued £2500
  • 24 x 60 min Individual Coaching sessions (12 per person) - valued £3120 
  • 12 x 90 min Couples Coaching sessions - valued £3000
  • Weekly video lessons with key teachings on the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the soul of your relationship - valued £4240 
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system 
  • Guided audio and video practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together - valued £2000
  • BONUS: Online Sacred Sexuality Erotic Massage Course valued at £444

You get a total value of £18.000 for £4.500

MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

If you aren’t satisfied with the Relationship Alchemy program within the first month, you can have a refund of what you have paid minus processing costs (£100). What I need from you in return is prove that you have watched all the videos (shared with you thus far), participated in the coaching calls, and done all the practices I suggest.