Why is it so hard to get what we want in love, sex and relationships? What if we desire things that harm others? Can our desires really be trusted and guide is the way? 

A woman desires her husband to be more devoted to her and struggles to find peace because he doesn't give her the attention and intimacy she needs from him. 

A man desires his girlfriend to have more sex with him and feels sexually frustrated. 

Another man desires a long-term partner but is scared to admit this and isn't actively looking, because he feels scared of having his heart broken again.  

A couple longs for more erotic magic together but they keep fighting about not being compatible. 

There is one thing they all have in common:  they have desires that cause discomfort because their desires feel out of reach. 

 

'Follow Your Desire' is a 14-day STEP BY STEP SYSTEM to help you work through the inner blocks, fears, and unconscious patterns that stand in the way of having more fulfilling relationships and better sex 

Join the Challenge Now for £22

Who is it for?

In short: People who are ready to tend to their unfulfilled desires in relationship, love and sex.

You either:  

1. Know what you want

You know what you long for in love and intimacy — but you are not getting it. You might feel sore, rejected, frustrated, resentful or disheartened. You might be asking: 
“Why does this keep happening?”

2. No longer know what you want

Either because the things you seemed to want no longer fit, or because you have adapted. At some point in your life you have become numb, accommodating, or disconnected from your deeper truth. You may feel shut down, unclear, disconnected from your body, unsure. Your question is: “How do I reconnect to what I actually desire and feel safe to want?”

 

3. Are afraid of desire itself

You associates desire with danger. You protect yourself and call it greed or 'I just go with the flow." You might worry about: "What if I do not get what I want?"
"What if I am rejected for saying it out loud?"
"What if my partner cannot meet me there?" 
"What if I keep longing for something that never comes?"
"What if following my joy changes my life in a way I lose control?" "What if someone gets hurt?"

 

And yet beneath all that you project onto desire, desire remains.

And it has a message for you, one that only you can hear. 

FROM DISCOMFORT TO PLEASURE 

What you'll learn here is not a spiritual bypass.
It is not “just think positive and you'll get what you want.”
And it is not about demanding that life instantly hands you what you want either.

It is a grounded, embodied, spiritually-rooted process that helps you:

  • reconnect to what you truly, whole-heartedly want 
  • learn how transform desire from discomfort to pleasure 
  • understand why you're subconsciously pushing your desires further away from you by uncovering hidden resistance, fear, and protective patterns
  • somatically clear some of what stands in the way
  • learn how desire makes you more resilient if you relate to it in a way that lights you up 
  • learn how to use sexual energy through Sex Magic as a force of prayer, power, and creation

This is deep work in a low-cost format.

 

Days 1–4: Awakening desire

You will begin by reconnecting to desire in the body, exploring the myths you carry about desire, and starting a desire journal. You will also begin discovering hidden desire through your complaints, jealousy, and disowned parts.

Days 5–7: Choosing what matters

You will choose one desire to focus on and begin exploring why it is not yet alive in your life. You will look at fear, resistance, and the parts of you that may not yet feel safe having what you want.

Days 8–14: Purification and Sex Magic

You will move into a deeper daily ritual journey that combines purification practices with sex magic, helping you clear blocks and bring more intention, energy, and devotion to the desire you are working with.

Why This Challenge?

Desire does not live only on the surface.

What you want in relationship is often deeply connected to your subconscious mind, your nervous system, your self-worth, your ancestral conditioning, and the ways you have learned to protect yourself.

Here, you'll learn how to ask again. 

How to be honest with yourself. 

How to know how to choose desires that elevate you, and what to do with those desires that want to put you down. 

How to not self-sabotage your desires. 

How to unburden youself from carrying old family or ancestral loyalties — inherited patterns of not being met, cherished, or chosen. 

Desire then becomes a path of truth, and with truth comes freedom. 

 

I'M BIBI.

I have had hundreds of conversations with women, men, couples and LGBTQ+ on their desires in relationship to themselves, partnership, and erotic intimacy.

Here is what I have found in working with many of them: 

There are people who follow their desire, face their fears, and one day will have new, expansive and fulfilling experiences.

And there are people who don't follow their desire and will most likely never experience what they are longing for.

The difference between the two is that the first ones don't give up. They are willing to remove the blocks that are in the way - and see this as a spiritual practice of surrendering. 

I use a tantric approach to sex, love and relationship coaching, which means that I work with embodiment practices that liberate hidden, subconscious parts of us so that more energy can flow inside yourself and between you and your partner. 

I am VITA certified (by Layla Martin), and blend the newest relationship psychology with NLP, ritual, shamanism and tantra, conscious kink, shadow-work, meditation and visualisation practices. Some of my teachers are Layla Martin, Terry Real and Ester Perel. 

I have worked with hundreds of individuals and couples over the past 7 years. 

In 2 weeks, I teach you how following your desires will lead you closer to greater erotic fulfilment and better relationships

This is a proven step-by-step method, tested in two previous challenges and many of my clients. 

Step 1: Get real about what you truly want 

First LIVE CALL 3rd of May 6pm BST (Calls are recorded) 

Step 2: Understand your fears and resistance and why you don't have it yet  

Second LIVE CALL 10th of May 6pm BST 

Step 3: Embody your desire fully 

Sex Magic Practice calls from 11th-17th of May at 8am for 30 min (optional) 

Step 4: Trust completely 

Third LIVE CALL 17th of May 6pm BST 

 

BONUS and INTEGRATION CALL 31st of May 6pm BST 

 

INCLUDES WORKBOOK, 4 x 90 min LIVE CALLS, 7 x 30 min Sex Magic Practice Calls, AND ACCESS TO A WHATASPP GROUP 

 

Challenge starts on 3rd of May at 6pm BST

Doors close at 5pm 

WARNING: THIS IS A CHALLENGE NOT AN ONLINE COURSE. ALL PRACTICES WILL BE DELETED 2 WEEKS AFTER THE CHALLENGE.

Join the challenge for £22

How do I teach? 

Real, vulnerable, body-centric, and juicy. 

I will take you to your edge. 

I will invite you to feel.

I will teach you energy orgasms and Sex Magic. 

I will ask uncomfortable questions. 

I will hold you safely. 

I will motivate you. 

Because I know what it feels like to want a kind of love that feels out of reach. 

 

 

 

Join Follow Your Desire

Dare to listen to the hidden messages of your desires. 

 

If you know there is something in you that wants more…

And you are ready to tend to your feelings around it...

This challenge is for you.

Not because it will magically remove all obstacles overnight.

But because it will help you stop abandoning what you want —
and start meeting it with courage, consciousness, and devotion.

 

Join the challenge for only £22