RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY

For couples who want to have an extraordinary relationship so that you can be of service to what really matters

 

You're not here because it's easy. You are here because it matters.

This is for couples who still love each other — but have gone through a crisis, frequent conflict, or find themselves emotionally and sexually disconnected.

Maybe you’ve had a rupture.

A betrayal.

A spiritual or emotional divergence.

Maybe you’re committed — but exhausted and afraid.

You are still in love — but you don't feel safe.

You want to stay. But not like this.

This is your invitation to begin again.

'Relationship Alchemy' is my signature coaching program for couples who are called to learning what it means to experience TRUE LOVE. Rooted in modern couples psychology and Tantra, this program will take your relationship apart layer by layer and rebuild the foundations of your love based on love, truth, freedom, commitment, understanding, healing and respect, to create an extraordinary relationship. 

"Alchemy is about transforming something mediocre into something extraordinary. It is about transforming wounds into gifts that can serve the whole world."

 Bibi Gratzer 

 

INTRODUCING...

A WORLD-CLASS

WHOLISTIC

COUPLES

COACHING PROGRAM

Not just therapy. Not just tools. This is transformation.

 

 

 

 

HERE IS A BREAKDOWN:

What's included? 

  • Being held in a strong, supportive container for 6-12 months 
  • Up to 6 Coaching calls per month over 6 months or spread out across 12 months
  • 16 x 60 min Individual Coaching sessions (8 per person) 
  • 16 x 90 min Couples Coaching sessions
  • Weekly video teachings on issues of the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the spirit of your relationship
  • One monthly core-practice for learning and growing together 
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system
  • Guided audio and video practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together
  • Private WhatsApp group with personal coaching support in between the sessions 

Emotional Connection + Safety

  • You’ll learn to feel deeply seen and wanted — not just for what you give, but for who you are.

  • You’ll create a relationship where your inner children feel safe — even during conflict.

  • You’ll stop reacting from fear, and begin responding from love.

  • You’ll understand your attachment styles and learn how to quickly de-escalate tension, so conflict becomes a teacher, not a threat.

Sacred Conflict + Repair

  • You’ll replace fighting with rituals of repair — ways to be heard, understood, and responded to.

  • You’ll stop recycling old pain in new arguments.

  • You’ll learn to spot low-level resentment before it erupts — and address it with grace.

  • You’ll move from blame to responsibility — and from isolation to collaboration.

  • You’ll stop keeping score and start creating healing.

Personal Responsibility + Nervous System Work

  • You’ll learn to regulate your nervous system and build emotional resilience.

  • You’ll stop outsourcing your sense of worth or safety to your partner.

  • You’ll learn to speak your needs and desires with ownership, not expectation.

  • You’ll explore your core wounds and limiting beliefs, and begin to rewrite them with compassion.

Erotic Reconnection + Sacred Sexuality

  • You’ll rebuild sensual trust through embodied presence and polarity.

  • You’ll explore your edges, your turn-ons, your shadows — with safety and reverence.

  • You’ll step into different masculine and feminine archetypes to increase chemistry and depth.

  • You’ll integrate sacred sexuality and tantric rituals that go beyond just sex — they become healing experiences.

  • You’ll each have your own self-pleasure practice, so you don’t lose yourself in the “us.”

Shared Vision + Spiritual Growth

  • You’ll create a shared relational vision that’s bigger than your triggers.

  • You’ll learn to love yourself more through the mirror of your partner.

  • You’ll discover that every challenge is a sacred invitation to go deeper.

  • You’ll collaborate — not compete. You’ll hold each other as sacred mirrors with equal power.

  • You'll discover what your relationship wants to be in service of, such as your children, projects you create together, the collective, the Earth or Love itself  

The Glue: Play, Joy + Presence

Alongside all this depth, you’ll return to the simple joy of being together:

  • Regular date nights

  • Emotional + physical intimacy practices

  • Exploring new things

  • Play, laughter, and rest

  • The remembering that love gets to be light too

WHY THIS IS DIFFERENT

✧ It’s not just about communication tools — it’s deep cellular transformation.

We go deeper than conflict resolution.
We work with your nervous systems, your triggers, your relational blueprints — so you don’t just talk better, you relate from a place of safety, truth, and self-ownership.


✧ It’s trauma-informed and spiritually anchored.

This isn’t therapy. And it’s not life coaching with a few intimacy tips.
This is sacred space where trauma healing, tantric principles, polarity, and deep soul work meet.
We heal in the body, through the breath, through ritual, and through presence.


âś§ It includes your erotic life as a portal into your authentic self and liberation.

We don’t avoid sexuality — we honor it. We work with your erotic connection not just for pleasure, but for a deep connection with yourself, each other, and the cosmos. Through masculine and feminine polarity work, you'll learn how to create stronger magnetism between you both . Sacred sexuality is a core part of this work — not an add-on.


âś§ It honours your real life and real love.

You don’t have to fit a box here.
Whether you're exploring non-monogamy, healing from betrayal, rediscovering yourselves after the kids have left the nest, or you want to create an unconventional life — this space meets you where you are. I welcome all of you.


This is not self-help. This is soul work.
And if you're ready, we’ll walk it together.

 

This is a premium, bespoke coaching container. I work closely with just a few couples at a time — so the space is deep, real, and fully supported.

Bbook a Free 60 min Connection Call

BONUS: 

A SELF-PACED ONLINE SACRED SEXUALITY MASSAGE COURSE

with guided Pussy and Penis Massage & many tantric rituals worth £444 

I'M BIBI.

I am a world class Sex and Relationship Coach, helping couples to heal and claim the highest and the deepest love with a shamanic - tantric approach. I blend the newest relationship psychology with NLP, ritual, shamanism and tantra, conscious kink, shadow-work, meditation and visualisation practices. 

I am a devotee of love. I have dedicated my life to learning how to increase my capacity to give and receive love in all relations. 

It is through our relationships that we can grow more than we could on our own. We also can find greater love, compassion and understanding than we ever could on our own. 

Let’s talk first. This isn’t a sales call — it’s a connection call.

We’ll explore where you are, where you want to be, and whether this is the right space to walk that journey.

Book a free 60 min connection call
 

"Bibi is gifted. She intuitively sees what's going on and gave us exactly what we needed. We have both grown more than words can describe. It's like a miracle."

Peter - Previous Participant 

"I love how many different threads she weaves together, and how she made us practice. She truly embodies what she teaches."

Caroline - Previous Participant 

"This program changed our relationship inside out and helped us to stay together. However, it wasn't easy. Bibi goes deep and both nourishes and challenges us, but she is always there with us."

Nick, Previous Participant

IS THIS COACHING PROGRAM RIGHT FOR YOU?

 

This work is not for every couple. It’s for the ones who are all in.

This is for you if:

✔ You’ve experienced a rupture — such as a betrayal, a traumatic event, an emotional or a spiritual divergence, or a period of uncertainty about whether you want to continue or not 
✔ You’re still in love (or longing to be), but stuck in reactivity or distance
✔ You want to move from bad to good to extraordinary and sacred 
✔ You’re open to conscious sexuality, sacred intimacy, and deeper truths
✔ You’re willing to face your part in the pattern — and grow through it
 

This is not for couples looking for a quick fix.

This is for those ready to alchemize everything.

Choose your payment plan

 

Book a free connection call with me first to apply for Relationship Alchemy  

Book a free 60 min call here

6-12 months long container, paid in full

ÂŁ6000

Great deal for maximal transformation!

  • Being held in a strong, supportive container for 6-12 months with private WhatsApp group and live-text support 
  • 6 Coaching calls per month over 6 months or spread out across 12 months
  • 16 x 60 min Individual Coaching sessions (8 per person) 
  • 16 x 90 min Couples Coaching sessions
  • Weekly video lessons with key teachings on the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the soul of your relationship
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system
  • Guided audio and video practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together
  • BONUS: Online Sacred Sexuality Erotic Massage Course valued at ÂŁ444
JOIN NOW

PAY IN 12 INSTALMENTS OF ÂŁ600

ÂŁ7200

Making transformation affordable for most people

  • Being held in a strong, supportive container for 6-12 months with private WhatsApp group and live-text support 
  • 6 Coaching calls per month over 6 months or spread out across 12 months
  • 16 x 60 min Individual Coaching sessions (8 per person) 
  • 16 x 90 min Couples Coaching sessions
  • Weekly video lessons with key teachings on the heart, the nervous system, the sex, and the soul of your relationship
  • Tools for co-regulation and self-regulation to shift the imprints of your nervous system
  • Guided audio and video practices and rituals for deeper intimacy and clarity that you can practice together
  • BONUS: Online Sacred Sexuality Erotic Massage Course valued at ÂŁ444
JOIN NOW

MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

If you aren’t satisfied with the Relationship Alchemy program within the first 3 months, you can have a refund of what you have paid minus processing costs (ÂŁ100). What I need from you in return is prove that you have watched all the videos, participated in the coaching calls, and done all the practices I suggest.Â