How previous participants moved from doubt and despair to getting more of what they want

Heather desired her husband to be more devoted to her and was in great despair because he couldn't give her the attention and intimacy she needed from him. Because of her low-self worth, she took it personal. Through this challenge, she reclaimed her desire as safe and worthy and stopped making her husband's lack about her. She told her husband clearly that acts of care and intimacy are a non-negotiable for her (not from the wounded girl, but as a mature woman) - and for the first time in years he changed.

Matthew desired to have more sex with his girlfriend and felt sexually frustrated because she vastly rejected him. When they did make love, she felt used afterwards and further avoided erotic intimacy. Through this challenge, they both learnt to restore safety in their bodies, which made them more present with each other. They learnt to talk about what they both wanted and began exploring ways of being intimate that didn't have a goal. She felt nourished and loved. He got his needs met more often than not. 

What they have in common: their desires felt out of reach and thus caused despair and suffering.

Before they started working with me, desire had stopped feeling safe. 

But with the right approach - desire led them on a journey of understanding themselves and each other more deeply - and even led to liberation of patterns that had been blocking them for a life-time.  

 

'Follow Your Desire' is a 14-day STEP BY STEP SYSTEM combining meditation, somatics, breathwork, journaling, shadow-work and Sex Magic to help rewire your body to feel safe to ask for and take action on what you really want 

Join the Challenge Now for £22

Who is it for?

You sense there’s a more alive, more open version of you beneath the surface.

Your body knows it—but something in you overrides it.

You long for more intimacy, more pleasure, more truth…
but you’re not sure how to act on these desires. 

Somewhere along the way, desire stopped feeling safe. 

And now you might find yourself in one of these places:

You know what you want—but it’s not happening.
And you’re left feeling frustrated, rejected, or wondering Why does this keep repeating?

You don’t know what you want anymore.
You feel disconnected, unclear, or shut down.
Where do I even begin?

You’re afraid to want.
Because wanting feels risky.
What if I’m rejected? What if it never happens? What if everything changes What if I lose control? 

FROM DISCOMFORT TO PLEASURE 

What you'll learn here is not a spiritual bypass.
It is not “just think positive and you'll get what you want.”
And it is not about demanding that life instantly hands you what you want either.

It is a grounded, embodied, spiritually-rooted process that helps you:

  • reconnect to what you truly, whole-heartedly want in a way that feels safe and restorative
  • learn how transform desire from despair or fear to excitement and pleasure
  • understand why you're subconsciously pushing your desires further away 
  • somatically clear some of what stands in the way
  • experience how liberating it can be to act on your desires 
  • learn how to use sexual energy through Sex Magic as a force of prayer, power, and creation

This is deep work in a low-cost format.

 

Days 1-4: Create Safety in the Body

You will begin by reconnecting to your body, exploring the myths you carry about desire, and explore what you need to make desiring feel safe again. Through somatics, we'll restore safety in your nervous system. 

Days 5–10: Understand your Core Desire and Your Blocks

You will start a desire journal and begin discovering hidden desire through your complaints, jealousy, and disowned parts. You will choose one core desire to focus on and begin exploring why it is not yet alive in your life. You will look at fear, resistance, and the parts of you that may not yet feel safe having what you want.

Days 11–14: Sex Magic & Action 

You will move into a deeper daily ritual journey that combines purification practices with sex magic, helping you clear blocks and bring more intention, energy, and devotion to the desire you are working with. On the last day, you'll take clear action towards having what you want. 

Why This Challenge?

 

Over these 14 days, you’ll rebuild your relationship with desire from the ground up.

You’ll reconnect with the parts of you that learned it wasn’t safe to want, and create a new sense of safety in your body.

Through simple, embodied practices, you’ll feel more open, grounded, and connected—and begin to see that boundaries don’t limit desire, they make it possible.

You’ll uncover what you truly want, meet the fears around it with understanding, and begin working with your life force through breath, sound, and awareness.

👉 By the end, you won’t just be thinking about your desire—you’ll have felt it, named it, and taken your first step toward living it.

 

I'M BIBI.

I have coached hundreds of women, men, couples and LGBTQ+ on their desires in relationship to themselves, partnership, and erotic intimacy.

Here is what I have found. 

 The people who eventually experience what they deeply want inside, never give up on themselves and their desires. They see the path as a spiritual practice. 

This is why I use a tantric approach to sex, love and relationship coaching, which means that I work with the body, breath, liberation, increasing consciousness and recognising the divinity inside of you. 

I am VITA certified (by Layla Martin), and have done many other trainings in relationship psychology, shamanism and tantra, conscious kink, shadow-work, meditation and visualisation practices. Some of my teachers are Layla Martin, Terry Real and Ester Perel. 

I have worked with hundreds of individuals and couples over the past 7 years. 

In 2 weeks, I teach you how liberating it can feel to ask for and take action on what you really want

This is a proven step-by-step method, tested in two previous challenges and many of my clients. 

Step 1: CREATE SAFETY IN YOUR BODY

Step 2: UNDERSTAND YOUR CORE DESIRES AND YOUR BLOCKS

Step 3: EMBODY YOUR DESIRE FULLY

Step 4: LET GO OF THE OUTCOME COMPLETELY

 

 

First LIVE CALL 1st of June 6pm BST (Calls are recorded) 

Second LIVE CALL Wednesday 10th of June 6pm BST

Third LIVE CALL 14th of June 6pm BST 

BONUS and INTEGRATION CALL 24th of June 

 

INCLUDES WORKBOOK, 4 x 90 min LIVE CALLS, AND ACCESS TO A WHATASPP GROUP 

 

Challenge starts on 1st of JUNE at 6pm BST

Doors close at 5pm 

WARNING: THIS IS A CHALLENGE NOT AN ONLINE COURSE. ALL PRACTICES WILL BE DELETED 2 WEEKS AFTER THE CHALLENGE.

Join the challenge for £22

How do I teach? 

Real, vulnerable, body-centric, and juicy. 

I will take you to your edge. 

I will invite you to feel.

I will teach you energy orgasms and Sex Magic. 

I will ask uncomfortable questions. 

I will hold you safely. 

I will motivate you. 

Because I know what it feels like to want a kind of love that feels out of reach. 

 

 

 

Join Safe to Desire

Dare to listen to the hidden messages of your desires. 

 

If you know there is something in you that wants more…

This challenge is for you.

Not because it will magically remove all obstacles overnight.

But because it will help you stop abandoning yourself and what you want —
and start meeting yourself with courage, consciousness, and devotion.

 

Join the challenge for only £22