THE LOVE YOU LONG FOR IS ALSO A PATH OF YOUR BECOMING.
A year-long practice community for individuals and couples who want to explore the highest and deepest love they are capable of — and develop the capacities that make that love possible.
We went from almost ending our relationship to creating the new relationship we wanted - we went from Christian monogamous to polyamorous and it works for us! She helped us explore new ways of relating to each other through spirituality, sexuality, and communication. We’re so grateful to have moved from a ‘stuck’ place to experiencing much more freedom, excitement, pleasure and openness in our relationship. We also feel more equipped to face future challenges on our own.
Working with Bibi was transformative. She offers a grounded, feminine space that feels deeply safe. Working with Bibi changed how I relate to others. I came away feeling more attuned and open in my connections, and more connected to myself. Bibi’s presence and guidance were deeply helpful. - SASKIA
Sacred Union isn't only about the quality of the relationship we create.
It's about the capacities we develop through loving.
SAFETY
When I learn to stay present with myself instead of abandoning myself, I have more safety.
VITALITY
When I can inhabit pleasure, grief, desire, anger, tenderness and my body without shutting down, I have more vitality.
AGENCY
When I can know what I stand for, set a boundary, take responsibility, say no, choose, lead and act, I have more agency.
CONNECTION
When I can stay in relationship across difference, receive another person’s reality without erasing my own, repair rupture and let myself actually be affected by another, I have more connection.
CREATIVITY
When I can hold apparent opposites — masculine and feminine, structure and flow, dominance and surrender, autonomy and devotion, certainty and mystery — I develop more capacity for complexity and creativity.
DEVOTION
And when I’m no longer using so much life-force defending, performing, fighting, chasing validation or surviving intimacy, more of me becomes available for being devoted to something greater than myself.
For more than seven years, I’ve worked with hundreds of individuals and couples exploring some of the most intimate territories of being human — love, sex, conflict, trauma, desire, power, pleasure and purpose.
My work brings together relationship psychology, Tantra, sacred sexuality, nervous-system and trauma work, embodiment, shadow work and spiritual practice — because I don’t believe extraordinary love is something we can think our way into.
And this isn’t only professional for me.
My own relationships have been some of my greatest initiations — through extraordinary love and erotic awakening, but also conflict, rupture, betrayal, wounds and the ongoing humbling practice of learning how to love.
I’m not interested in teaching from a pedestal.
I’m interested in creating spaces where we can practise becoming more capable of love — together.
7+ YEARS
Working with intimacy & relationship
HUNDREDS
Of individuals & couples supported
VITA CERTIFIED
Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching
MULTI-DISCIPLINARY
Tantra · trauma · embodiment · relational practice
Two hours each week to practise, connect and bring the work into your real life.
We come together for embodied practices and rituals, live teaching, community connection and coaching around the questions and challenges you’re actually meeting in love and life.
So you don’t just learn about Sacred Union — you practise it, receive support when you get stuck, and grow alongside people devoted to the same path.
Choose from three weekly practice times: Monday evening, Tuesday evening or Saturday morning.
Build the relationship with yourself that you want to bring into love.
A guided video journey and audio practice library exploring core wounds, attachment patterns, inner-child work, safety, self-trust, boundaries, desires, pleasure and your relationship with yourself and the sacred.
Become more securely rooted in yourself, build confidence and self-trust, understand your patterns and needs, and rely less on another person to give you the safety, validation or wholeness you can learn to cultivate within.
This is also where the single person who thinks “I want love so badly it hurts” finds themselves. We're not telling them they shouldn't want a partner. We're helping them become deeply resourced while they pursue the love they want.
Learn how to create extraordinary love with another human being.
Video teachings and guided relational practices for communication, vulnerability, triggers, conflict and repair, boundaries, conscious power, attachment dynamics, shadow work, trust and devotion.
Learn to understand what is really happening underneath your conflicts, communicate what you need, repair after rupture and stay connected to yourself while opening more deeply to another.
This is where:
We love each other, so why do we keep hurting each other?
belongs.
Bring pleasure, Eros and the sacred back into intimacy.
A dedicated library of teachings, demonstrations, audio practices and rituals exploring self-pleasure, breathwork, erotic energy, desire, erotic blueprints, blocks around sexuality, conscious touch, date-night rituals, Tantric massage, yoni and lingam massage, and practices for deepening erotic connection.
Whether you’re longing to reconnect with your own sexuality, desire has disappeared, sex has become pressured or predictable, or you simply know there is far more pleasure and intimacy available to you — this is a space to explore sexuality with curiosity, reverence and choice.
Let the love you cultivate become bigger than the relationship itself.
Guided teachings and practices to explore your values, purpose, relationship with the sacred and what you want to devote your life to — including practices for partners who want to create a shared vision and discover what they are here to create, protect or serve together.
Move from “How do I get the love I want?” toward the deeper question: “What becomes possible through the way I love?”
Because we were never meant to learn relationship alone.
Connect with other individuals and couples committed to extraordinary love, practise together, share what you’re discovering and create ongoing accountability. As the House grows, this can include practice partners, accountability buddies and smaller practice spaces.
The community itself becomes part of the practice: a place to be seen, challenged, supported and exposed to ways of loving and living beyond your own experience.
Most of us were never taught how to meet our own needs, heal attachment wounds, trust ourselves or stay present when we're triggered.
So the House intentionally works across four dimensions: self, relationship, sexuality and service.
Because what happens within you shapes how you love. Relationship reveals what you cannot discover alone. Sexuality brings us into the body, pleasure and Eros. And devotion asks what our love ultimately wants to create and serve.
The goal isn't to collect more relationship tools. It's to become more capable of relationship — with yourself, another, Eros and life itself.
Claire
Georgia and Silver
Christina and John
Sacred Union begins with the relationship you have with yourself — and deepens through how you meet another.
You don’t have to wait for your person to begin.
Work with the patterns that shape who you choose, how you attach, what you tolerate and how you respond to longing, rejection and uncertainty.
Deepen self-trust, clarify what you truly desire, reconnect with your sexuality and learn to meet more of your own needs — without pretending you don’t deeply want partnership.
The aim isn’t to stop needing love. It’s to become more capable of receiving and creating the love you actually want.
Come into the House together and make your relationship part of the practice.
You’ll each have your own membership and individual journey, because the patterns you bring into love are your own. Alongside this, you’ll have access to the relational and sacred sexuality practices you can explore together.
Work with the real places where you meet each other: triggers, conflict, trust, boundaries, desire, sex, vulnerability, power, repair and devotion.
You each do your own work — and discover what becomes possible when you meet differently.
JOINING AS A COUPLE?
Each partner receives their own House membership and personal access. A reduced couples rate is available when you join together.
You feel more whole in yourself.
You feel safer in love.
You can stay present through vulnerability, triggers and uncertainty.
You love without losing yourself.
You know your needs, desires and boundaries — and have the courage to honour them.
You feel more erotically alive.
More connected to your body, pleasure, desire and capacity for intimacy.
You relate differently.
More truth. Less projection. More repair. Less blame. Deeper connection.
You have more of yourself available for life.
For creativity. Purpose. Love. And what you choose to devote yourself to.
A more life-affirming culture isn’t something we simply advocate for.
It’s something we practise into being — beginning with how we relate to ourselves and each other.
A year devoted to extraordinary love.
PAID MONTHLY FOR 12 MONTHS
JOIN WITH YOUR PARTNER — CLAIM YOUR MEMBERSHIPLucy
Angela and Chris
Harry and Rose
You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You don’t need to be perfectly healed.
And you don’t need to wait for the perfect relationship.
You only need to know that you want more from the way you love.
More truth.
More safety.
More pleasure.
More aliveness.
More courage to meet what love asks of you.
The House of Sacred Union is a place to practise becoming capable of it.
Get started today before this once in a lifetime opportunity expires.