On Our Desire for Drama Jun 04, 2025

Since the Dark Eros Retreat at the beginning of May, I’ve been reflecting on drama once again in my life — and how drama impacts our relationships, our nervous systems, and the stories we tell ourselv...

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The Gift of Jealousy Jun 01, 2025

Let's talk about jealousy. 

Not the soft, theoretical kind.
The real kind.
The kind that coils in the gut. That floods your chest. That has you gripping the edge of your seat, holding your breath, tr...

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Rethinking Sex in Uncertain Times Apr 22, 2025

We often hear these days that we live in uncertain times. 

Climate change. Ecological crisis. Greater uncertainty about another world war. Financial uncertainty. Exponential increase of technology. P...

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What If You Couldn't Fail in Love Apr 18, 2025

  

I am currently visiting family in Austria.

The house where I grew up belongs to my godparents. They are both 84 but you couldn't tell, they are healthy, young, active, funny and busy. Equally imp...

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