Before the universe as we know it existed, there was only consciousness and anti-matter. 
This is a mix of science and knowing. 

The Tantric version of this is Shiva—pure consciousness that is in eve...

The love story that will never end, even on the day you die... 

A dear sister of mine, whom I am mentoring, is stepping into a 3-month container to devote herself entirely to herself. 

No dating app...

What does equal power in relationships look like?

There’s a theme I’ve been sitting with for many years: the theme around equal power in a relationship. 

How can we be fully ourselves, not giving ou...

Ancient futures are calling...

We’ve spoken about menstrual blood a few weeks ago. 
We’ve spoken about shame, polyamory and healing.
But there’s something even more taboo I feel called to write about...

About a month ago, Aubrey Marcus — author, entrepreneur, and psychonaut — shared publicly that he is now living in a three-way relationship with his wife, Vylana, and another woman, Alana.  Link to th...

Shame is a familiar feeling for me.

As a teenager, I got myself into both anorexia and bulimia—two devouring addictions that often go unnamed as what they really are: shame and rage internalised so d...

Let’s talk about the part of you you’ve been trying to hide.

The one you judge or feel ashamed of. 
The one you bury.

The dark side of yourself, that you'd rather not know or own, but that is still ...

Since the Dark Eros Retreat at the beginning of May, I’ve been reflecting on drama once again in my life — and how drama impacts our relationships, our nervous systems, and the stories we tell ourselv...

Let's talk about jealousy. 

Not the soft, theoretical kind.
The real kind.
The kind that coils in the gut. That floods your chest. That has you gripping the edge of your seat, holding your breath, tr...

We often hear these days that we live in uncertain times. 

Climate change. Ecological crisis. Greater uncertainty about another world war. Financial uncertainty. Exponential increase of technology. P...

I am currently visiting family in Austria.

The house where I grew up belongs to my godparents. They are both 84 but you couldn't tell, they are healthy, young, active, funny and busy. Equally imp...