A Love Letter to Men (And to Semen) Aug 08, 2025

Ancient futures are calling...

We’ve spoken about menstrual blood a few weeks ago. 
We’ve spoken about shame, polyamory and healing.
But there’s something even more taboo I feel called to write about...

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Real Love Is Without Possession. Aug 07, 2025

About a month ago, Aubrey Marcus — author, entrepreneur, and psychonaut — shared publicly that he is now living in a three-way relationship with his wife, Vylana, and another woman, Alana.  Link to th...

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Shame. The Quiet Killer of Eros Jul 10, 2025

Shame is a familiar feeling for me.

As a teenager, I got myself into both anorexia and bulimia—two devouring addictions that often go unnamed as what they really are: shame and rage internalised so d...

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Own Your Shadow Jun 21, 2025

Let’s talk about the part of you you’ve been trying to hide.

The one you judge or feel ashamed of. 
The one you bury.

The dark side of yourself, that you'd rather not know or own, but that is still ...

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On Our Desire for Drama Jun 04, 2025

Since the Dark Eros Retreat at the beginning of May, I’ve been reflecting on drama once again in my life — and how drama impacts our relationships, our nervous systems, and the stories we tell ourselv...

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The Gift of Jealousy Jun 01, 2025

Let's talk about jealousy. 

Not the soft, theoretical kind.
The real kind.
The kind that coils in the gut. That floods your chest. That has you gripping the edge of your seat, holding your breath, tr...

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Rethinking Sex in Uncertain Times Apr 22, 2025

We often hear these days that we live in uncertain times. 

Climate change. Ecological crisis. Greater uncertainty about another world war. Financial uncertainty. Exponential increase of technology. P...

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What If You Couldn't Fail in Love Apr 18, 2025

  

I am currently visiting family in Austria.

The house where I grew up belongs to my godparents. They are both 84 but you couldn't tell, they are healthy, young, active, funny and busy. Equally imp...

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