Healing Sexual Trauma Jun 21, 2025

My highest vision is to heal the collective wounds between men and women. 

One of the wounds that is still gaping open like the mouth of a Baleen whale on its hunt, is the one around sexual abuse. 

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Own Your Shadow Jun 21, 2025

Let’s talk about the part of you you’ve been trying to hide.

The one you judge or feel ashamed of. 
The one you bury.

The dark side of yourself, that you'd rather not know or own, but that is still ...

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The Gift of Jealousy Jun 01, 2025

Let's talk about jealousy. 

Not the soft, theoretical kind.
The real kind.
The kind that coils in the gut. That floods your chest. That has you gripping the edge of your seat, holding your breath, tr...

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Rethinking Sex in Uncertain Times Apr 22, 2025

We often hear these days that we live in uncertain times. 

Climate change. Ecological crisis. Greater uncertainty about another world war. Financial uncertainty. Exponential increase of technology. P...

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What If You Couldn't Fail in Love Apr 18, 2025

  

I am currently visiting family in Austria.

The house where I grew up belongs to my godparents. They are both 84 but you couldn't tell, they are healthy, young, active, funny and busy. Equally imp...

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Griefgasm as Medicine for Sadness Apr 18, 2025

One of my teachers once said "we have hearts so that they can break." Without a broken heart, we’d never learn about gratitude or humility. We’d be trapped in our ego self, thinking that we are in con...

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How Fucking Yourself can Change Your Life Apr 18, 2025

 

Self-pleasure is still a taboo in our culture. Even in sex-positive circles such as Temples, at the Tantra Festival in Goa, or in Fetish clubs, self-pleasuring is more edgy than interacting with ot...

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